Workshops

You deserve a life where your roles express your identity, not replace it.

From an early age, many of us learned who we needed to become in order to belong.

In the name of love and connection.
In the name of relationships.
In the name of safety.

We became…

• The responsible one
• The caretaker
• The achiever
• The peacekeeper
• The one who never asks for too much

These weren’t flaws.

They were brilliant adaptations that helped us stay connected to the people we depended on.

And over time, the roles that once protected us became the identity we live from, leaving us wondering why, despite doing everything “right,” we no longer feel fully like ourselves. When was the last time you asked yourself:

Who am I beneath the role?What do I actually want? What do I truly feel? What kind of life am I trying to create?

If you’ve ever felt like you’re living according to expectations, obligations, or old scripts rather than your own truth, this journey is for you.

My Journey

The hardest part of my journey wasn’t becoming aware of the roles I played.

It was realizing how little space I had to discover who I was beyond them.

I grew up in a rigid, authoritarian home where obedience mattered more than individuality. There wasn’t much room to question, disagree, or explore who I was becoming. My nervous system learned early that safety came from adapting, being responsible, predictable, and becoming who others needed me to be.

When choice isn’t available, adaptation becomes automatic.

So I carried those patterns into adulthood without even realizing it. For more than twenty years, I lived on autopilot, never stopping to ask whether the way I loved, cared, achieved, or held everything together was truly me, or simply who I had learned I needed to be.

Over time, a quiet split emerged.

There was the mother, the wife, the responsible one, the daughter, etc.
The one everyone could count on.

And then there was another part of me.

The woman who came alive while working with clients. The one who felt intuitive, spacious, creative, deeply present, and connected to something much greater than herself.

For years, I believed these were two different identities.

They weren’t.

One was a collection of adaptations that had helped me survive and belong. The other was my individuality, quietly waiting beneath the roles I had mistaken for who I was.

Everything began to change when I created space.

Space to slow down, to feel, to notice my patterns without judging them.
Space to ask, “Is this how I want to continue living?”

That space gave me something I had never truly experienced before:

Choice.

Not the choice to abandon the roles I knew, yet the freedom to inhabit them from my true identity instead of from old survival patterns.

I didn’t need to let go of the adaptations that had protected me for so many years.

I needed the capacity to see and decide when they were truly needed, and when they were no longer writing the script.

That is why I created From Actor to Author: to help you create enough inner space to reconnect with the person beneath the roles, so your life is guided by your individuality rather than by your conditioning.

The Transformation

This is not about becoming someone new, it’s about embodying your identity. Together, we will explore the protective patterns that once helped you survive, and gently create space for something more authentic to emerge.

Why Somatics?

Most efforts to change focus on changing thoughts. Yet many of our patterns live deeper than the mind. They live in our muscles, our posture, our breath, our nervous system, our relationships.

Somatic developmental work helps us bring awareness to these unconscious patterns so we can move from automatic reactions into embodied choice. When the body feels safer, new possibilities become available. You don’t have to force transformation, you create the conditions for it to emerge.

What We’ll Explore

This Journey Is For You If…

• You’re tired of running on empty and calling it “being responsible.”
• You’re ready to listen to your body instead of overriding it.
• You’re craving more energy, softness, pleasure and aliveness.
• You want to prioritize your wellbeing without guilt.
• You’re ready to become your own safest place, your own best friend.
• You long for deeper authenticity and connection.
• You want to feel so good that people ask you what your secret is.

What Makes This Different?

An intimate group

The circle is limited to six participants.

You will not be one person in a crowded room. The small group allows for depth, individual attention, genuine relationship, and space for each person’s process.

This is a carefully held environment where you can be witnessed without needing to impress, explain, or perform your healing.

Body-led transformation

We do not only discuss your patterns.

We explore how they appear through sensation, breath, posture, movement, impulses, boundaries, voice, and relationship.

This helps bridge the gap between knowing something intellectually and having the capacity to live it.

Relational practice

Many of our protective roles developed in relationship.

Healing them cannot happen in isolation.

The group becomes a place to practise being seen, taking space, expressing a preference, noticing a boundary, receiving support, and remaining connected without disappearing into another person’s needs.

Integration for real life

You will receive simple embodied practices and reflective prompts between sessions.

These exercises are designed for busy lives and can be practised at home, outside, or within ordinary moments of your day.

You will receive practical anchors that help you bring the work into your relationships, decisions, boundaries, voice, and daily routines.

Transformation does not happen only during the sessions.

It develops through the small moments when you recognize an old script and practise staying connected to yourself.

Program Details

Dates	Beginning October 5th · 6:30PM-8PM October 5th and 19th November 9th and 23rd December 7th and 21st
Format	In-person, bi-weekly
Group Size	Maximum 6 participants
Location	The Brick House Collective, Edmonton
Facilitator	Raluca Sacalean

Bodynamic Somatic Developmental Practitioner · Registered Massage Therapist / Craniosacral Therapist

Your Reclaiming Authenticity Integration Kit ($150 value)

Designed to support the journey between gatherings. Includes:

• 100 ml Reclaiming Authenticity Botanical Body Oil
• Personalized Aini Body Brush
• Reflective Questions & Somatic Integration Booklet

These tools help anchor the experience in daily life so the work continues long after each gathering ends.

Investment

Payment is also available via e-transfer to edmontonshouseofhealing@gmail.com.

Questions to Sit With

What part of your life feels written by old expectations? And what part of you is ready to write the next chapter?